Whatever be your lot in life, be humble. The soul is full of love. Ego resists this Divine Love. It is a process of surrender from deep within you. Let go. Let go. The Divine will catch you.
You have that humility. It is the flip-side, the opposite side of arrogance, just as sorrow and joy. That humility needs only some nurturing and very quickly it grows. Do not feel the arrogance. Do not concentrate on it, but whenever possible on a conscious level, practice humility. Humility, once nurtured in proper environment, boosted by Yajnya energy, is very quick to grow. Then, if you develop this humility you are able to see goodness in yourself and others. Then you can truly love others.